Demoted.(To Husband)

Today is the first day in 6 years, 2 months and 27 days, that Nats and I did not talk to each other.
So what if both of us are in two different places?
So what if he has gone on an office trip to a resort.
So what if his day is full of meetings and activities?
Isn't there a break at all??? Didn't he think of calling me? Nevertheless, I kept giving him many many many calls continuously since morning 9.00 am.. So what if that is a very very important office gathering to you, Natu?

Ever since he (temporarily, I pray so) moved to a different place, I have told him that he has to call his wife and say hello atleast once in the morning,1 after bf, 1 after reaching office, 1 before lunch,1 after lunch,1 leaving office ,1 reaching his room, 1 before dinner , 1 after dinner (Yeah, that means a call after almost every thing)and one before sleeping and ofcourse he has to pick all the calls that I make to him.That isn't too much.

At about 3 pm today, he showed some courtesy..he messaged me that he is not allowed to make or attend any calls??..what on earth is the meeting all about??
He gave me a call at about 7 pm...Why would I pick the call in the first time?? 'Come on, Call me again Natu' was my reaction to that call. Wanted him to give me another call..yes blow for blow...call it whatever..he has made me make that countless calls ..And yes, he made the second call but to my mom's mobile..I didnt pick that too...Just another call, I would have picked up..but arrogant, there was no more calls after that from him..I tried calling him.he didnt pick up..how busy?? I remember he said he had a party followed by dance after the meeting... So what??When these ppl allow to have party and dance, wouldn't they allow to make or take calls?Fishy! Yet to hear his side story..

This reminds me all that he has done to me ( Yeah, he has done to me)

He no longer praises my cooking...so what if I havent cooked lately..so what if my cooking hasnt turned out good...so what if my cake that I tried became as hard as a brick when I took it out of tht oven?...

Did I mention abt that incident that night when I landed india after my onsite??
I realized only after coming home, that is about 3 am in the morning that I had put somebody else's suitcase on my trolley. that means I left one of my suitcases that had all that I managed to buy in US in the airport itself. Okay , I missed my suitcase...We rushed to the airport at that early hour, luckly the taxi guy accepted for one more trip to airport and back to home. All the way to the airport , Nats was shouting at me...carelessness, moron, stupidness, idiotic and so on. So what If I missed my suitcase? We are seeing each other after 60 days...no..that didnt work.

Another one. I brought the ipod that I bought in US safely and in a fully workable mode. Isn't that enough? He yelled at me for not bringing the accessories safely..Poor me

When he yelled at me when I lost that 10 K for a heath insurance through that credit card call..I just said ok on the call and they deducted the money frm the card immediately. hmm....Its been a year now, never got the papers in hand. He made me close the credit card. I no more have any credit cards. As if that is not enough, he now has all my debit cards too..:(

I am now a days little scared of him...
I dont like it sometimes...
He no longer deserves to be called Vaa, Po....
Am going to punish him with Vaange and Poonge(just like how I call him before my in laws)......
Yes Natu, You are going to be treated as a husband. You dont qualify to be a lover-cum-friend anymore.

-J
(written on 27th Mar,10.)